Forgiveness

I become completely free when I realise that there's actually nothing to forgive.

Neither do I condemn you.
- Jesus


We cancel the debt, mark it "null and void," not because we have made the other person "pay" sufficiently for the wrong, but because we have come to recognise that the debt itself is not valid.

True forgiveness comes only when we are able to see, and emotionally accept, that there is and was nothing for us to forgive.

We should not have condemned or hated the other person in the first place.

- p196, The New Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz, M.D. F.I.C.S.